When my daughter passes away almost 4 years ago at 18 years old, it was very disheartening to not hear much from those who knew her growing up. The many acts of kindnesses came from those who either didn't know her at all, or had met her only once. They were all from my Toastmasters club. I can tell you that their acts of kindness were a balm to my heart. It was very powerful and comforted me immensely.
This is so true. When my mother died, many friends brought food. So much food. I couldn't swallow without choking and I wasn't getting much sleep. But I had four sons and a husband to feed. My sister and brother had their families as well. That food helped more us through that time more than you can imagine. Ever since that time, I always make a point of taking food to a family when they are facing a crisis.
This settled into the day perfectly, so many truths here. Agreed we can all teach the importance of thanking others, it doesn’t necessarily need to be parents. Just had this conversation with my 88 year old father in law; we can reinforce and support this.
Thank you for this encouragement. I agree that people in their 30's and 40's are so very immersed in their own lives that they miss opportunities for kindness . I was that way too. I get it. But now? Now is my time to shine in the kindness department. I really like that quote from Bob Kerry.
I was at my Retina Specialist's office today for a visit and an eye injection. I had recently changed my medical insurance, and when I checked in, they said I wouldn't be able to have my injection because they have to get pre-approval from the insurance company. I was unhappy about it but told her I understood. The technician brought me back to do the eye imaging, and I mentioned I wasn't having the injection. She immediately told me she had gotten preliminary approval so I could have it. I was so relieved. I looked at her and said, "I love you!" She looked slightly startled and then gave me a big smile. We became friends in an instant, and I was so happy I was able to connect with her.
When my daughter passes away almost 4 years ago at 18 years old, it was very disheartening to not hear much from those who knew her growing up. The many acts of kindnesses came from those who either didn't know her at all, or had met her only once. They were all from my Toastmasters club. I can tell you that their acts of kindness were a balm to my heart. It was very powerful and comforted me immensely.
This is so true. When my mother died, many friends brought food. So much food. I couldn't swallow without choking and I wasn't getting much sleep. But I had four sons and a husband to feed. My sister and brother had their families as well. That food helped more us through that time more than you can imagine. Ever since that time, I always make a point of taking food to a family when they are facing a crisis.
What a thoughtful idea Mimi, this is a very helpful gesture for any situation. Thank you for the reminder!
You're welcome. I truly appreciate your work here.
This settled into the day perfectly, so many truths here. Agreed we can all teach the importance of thanking others, it doesn’t necessarily need to be parents. Just had this conversation with my 88 year old father in law; we can reinforce and support this.
Lovely!
It's so lovely to see this little acts called out...more of this generosity! Lovely
Thank you for this encouragement. I agree that people in their 30's and 40's are so very immersed in their own lives that they miss opportunities for kindness . I was that way too. I get it. But now? Now is my time to shine in the kindness department. I really like that quote from Bob Kerry.
It doesn't hurt to be kind, try it.
I was at my Retina Specialist's office today for a visit and an eye injection. I had recently changed my medical insurance, and when I checked in, they said I wouldn't be able to have my injection because they have to get pre-approval from the insurance company. I was unhappy about it but told her I understood. The technician brought me back to do the eye imaging, and I mentioned I wasn't having the injection. She immediately told me she had gotten preliminary approval so I could have it. I was so relieved. I looked at her and said, "I love you!" She looked slightly startled and then gave me a big smile. We became friends in an instant, and I was so happy I was able to connect with her.
Gently, kindly and truly written. Kindness is so powerful and you’ve chosen many key points to inspire me and so many others.
Yesterday kindness came in such an unexpected way and the inspiration of the event shone in the faces of all who attended.
Little or large, the impact of true kindness is immeasurable.
Your words will ricochet ❣️
I pray daily that I am kind to others.